Are you looking for the best engagement gifts for gay couples to help them celebrate their big news?
Wondering if you even need to buy an engagement gift at all?
I’ve got you covered on both counts!
Today, we’ll talk about basic engagement gift etiquette, then we’ll check out some of my favorite ideas for all budgets!
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Engagement Gift Etiquette: Do You Even Need to Buy One?
Do you need to buy an engagement gift? Well, by the strictest definition of the word “need,” no, of course not.
You need oxygen, water, food, sleep, and shelter. Everything beyond that is a should.
So, should you buy an engagement gift? Yes. No. Maybe. It really depends! On what? Why, I’m so glad you asked!
Basically, if you’re attending a super formal engagement party, then yes, you should bring a gift. It’s not a requirement but it’s still a nice gesture.
If it’s an impromptu party at the couple’s house or favorite bar, then no, you really don’t have to. However, again, it’s nice to at least bring a card.
A gift is always appreciated, though, so you can’t really go wrong with bringing one UNLESS the couple specifically requests no gifts.
In that case, respect their wishes and save the money to put towards a bigger wedding present.
Now that we have our incredibly vague answer to whether or not you need to bring a gift, let’s check out a few of my favorite ideas for all budgets.
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10 Best Engagement Gifts for Gay Couples
One quick note: while I’ve shared some of my favorite pride, Mr and Mr, or Mrs & Mrs engagement gifts below, don’t feel like you have to go with those options.
It’s odd (and borderline prejudiced) to assume that every LGBTQ+ couple wants rainbows, after all! That’s why I’m including a good mix of ideas!
The first five are specifically great engagement gifts for LGBTQ couples, while the last five are more general gifts.
Check out the tables for a quick peek, then keep reading for more details about each gift.
1. Gay Wedding Planner Book
Planners make brilliant engagement gifts (just make sure no one else is getting them one), and this one just for gay couples is super detailed!
The planner covers everything from setting budgets to finding the best vendors and more.
You can even personalize the names on the cover or add fun wedding planning stickers.
They also have one for two brides if you’re shopping for lesbian engagement gifts.
2. Framed Map Art Heart LGBTQ Gift
I’ve recommended this beautiful framed map as a wedding gift, but it also makes a great engagement gift.
If you’re buying it to celebrate their engagement rather than the actual big day, I love the idea of honing in on the place & date they met (rather than where they’re getting married).
Customize the names, date, location, and frame style for the perfect personalized engagement gift.
- This digital print is customized to ''heart'' your special day.
- Choose any location worldwide to feature on your personalized heart map.
- Your print comes beautifully framed in a 13''h x13''w x 1.5''d solid New Zealand Pine shadow box frame.
3. Mrs. & Mrs. Laser Cut Wood Wedding Guestbook
No products found.I am so in love with this wooden book! It has to be one of my favorite Mrs. & Mrs. engagement gifts ever.
Wedding guests books are one of those gifts that you really should give before the big day (so they don’t go buy one themselves), which makes them so great for the engagement party.
You can customize the cover to add names for an extra fee (and admittedly, it’s a hefty extra fee but worth it).
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4. Wedding Guest Signing Board
No products found.While guest books are something that end up tucked away in a treasure trunk somewhere, alternatives like this signing board are made to be displayed.
Of course, you will need to know the date of their wedding before ordering it, so it’s not the best gift for a “hey, we’re engaged, but have no idea when we’re actually getting married” party.
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5. Funny His & His Glasses
One of my favorite things about engagement gifts is that you can get a little silly if you want!
These witty “Mr and Mr” glasses are a great example of a funny gift that’s still classy.
It’s up to the happy couple to decide who gets to be “Mr. Always Right!”
- Each design is handcrafted using a commercial grade vinyl film. Please hand wash only. Not dishwasher safe. Handmade with love and care in Long Beach, California.
6. Tiny Box of Date Nights
How cute is this box of date night ideas? It’s super budget-friendly and the tokens are gender-neutral, so it works well for any couple.
The box is made of recycled materials and the tokens are wooden, so they’ll last throughout many years of date nights!
7. Wine Decanter (and a bottle of vino)
For wine-loving couples, grab them a beautiful hand-blown decanter along with a fabulous bottle of wine (which, alas, you can’t buy on Amazon).
If they’re more of a “picnic in the park” rustic couple, I also love this wine lovers picnic bag!
- Enhances Flavor and Aroma: Built-in wine aerator design maximizes oxygenation to release rich aromas and deeper flavors; this wine decanter with aerator transforms everyday wine drinking into a more refined tasting experience
- Premium Crystal Wine Decanter: Hand blown lead free crystal glass ensures brilliant clarity and durability; 750ml carafe holds a full standard bottle; elegant design that complements any table or bar setting
- Perfect Wine Gift for Men and Women: This luxury wine decanter set is ideal for enthusiasts and casual drinkers alike; a thoughtful accessory for birthdays, holidays, or housewarmings; crafted gifts to deliver lasting value
8. The Complete Cooking for Two Cookbook
Cookbooks are another inexpensive yet fun gift for newly engaged couples, especially if they’re used to just ordering out!
This one is filled with over 600 recipe for two and the hardcover format is just right for gift giving.
- Hardcover Book
- English (Publication Language)
- 448 Pages - 11/28/2017 (Publication Date) - America's Test Kitchen (Publisher)
9. Mixology Bartender Kit
A perfect gift for cocktail-loving couples, this kit comes with everything except the booze!
It’s a little more expensive than other cocktail sets, but totally worth it since it’s made of heavy-duty rustproof materials.
If you don’t love the silver, it comes in three other styles. I kind of love the black/bamboo combo, too.
- COMPLETE 10-PIECE BARTENDER KIT – Master the art of mixology with this comprehensive cocktail kit. It features a 24oz shaker, dual-volume jigger, muddler, Hawthorne strainer, bar spoon, liquor pourers, corkscrew, and ice tongs; everything needed to create professional-grade drinks at home.
- ELEGANT BAMBOO DISPLAY STAND – Keep your workspace organized and clutter-free with our custom-designed bamboo bar tool set. Unlike flimsy wire racks, this solid stand features precision-cut slots for each component, making it a beautiful piece of bar accessories and decor for any countertop.
- RUST-RESISTANT STAINLESS STEEL – Crafted from high-grade stainless steel, this martini shaker set is built for durability and longevity. The heavy-duty material ensures your bar essentials remain rust-free and easy to clean, providing a leak-proof seal for vigorous shaking.
10. Gourmet Gift Basket
You really can’t go wrong with a gourmet gift basket! Everything inside is edible, so there’s nothing to clutter up their homes.
Then, when they’ve made their way through the treats, they have a functional basket (of which I personally can never have too many!)
- A GREAT ASSORTMENT OF GOURMET ITEMS: The Bon Appetit Gift Basket offers a wide variety of snacks and tea to satisfy any taste buds! The Bon Appetit our go-to gift for families, friends and clients
- THE PERFECT GIFT BASKET FOR ANY OCCASION: Perfect as an anniversary basket for couples, a congratulations gift basket, college care package,corporate gift. Ideal and unique gift as a housewarming,retirement gift
- PRIME PRESENTATION: We have taken gift-giving to a complete new level. Each detail in the package is designed to make your gift-giving even more thrilling and extra delicious. Our beautiful presentation will make this gift a memorable one
Remember, you don’t have to bring a gift, but it’s always nice!
All of the above make fantastic engagement gifts for gay couples and it shouldn’t be hard to find one that fits into your budget.
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However, if you’re on a super duper tight budget (which I always am), you could consider a group gift.
Engagement gifts really shouldn’t cost more than the wedding gift (that’s not a rule, just my logic), so it may make more sense to buy one of the pricier gifts above as a group.
Tell me some of your favorite engagement gifts for gay couples! Use the comments below.
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Nicole is the editor-in-chief and regular staff writer for LoveYouWedding. What does that mean? Basically, she handles all the day-to-day tasks related to managing writers and bringing you stellar content on planning the LGBTQ+ wedding of your dreams.
She loves writing about quirky and unique wedding ideas, probably because she’s pretty quirky herself!
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