Giving a wedding gift is one of the most symbolic gestures we get to make. You may be tying the knot with that special someone and you want to give them a token of your love or you may be getting a gift for two friends on their big day. Either way, the gesture is going to mean something. This is why it’s crucial to find the gift that best expresses your feelings or best wishes, and for that, you can never go wrong with some good jewelry.
Whether you’re giving hers and hers jewelry as a wedding gift for two brides or looking for something beautiful to give each other, I’ve got you covered. Below, we’ll take a look at some of my favorite matching bracelets and necklaces for women. I even included a couple that make perfect alternatives to engagement rings for those who can’t (or just plain don’t want) to wear bands.
Hers and Hers Jewelry Ideas That Are Just Perfect for Two Brides
We’ll break this down into two sections- one for bracelets and one for necklaces. As with our Hers and Hers Wedding Rings ideas, I’ve gone about this two different ways. While some actually are actually matching sets, I feel like there’s really no reason to limit yourself to ideas marketed specifically as “hers and hers jewelry.” So, I picked out a few beautiful single pieces. If you love them, just buy two!
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Hers and Hers Matching Bracelets
When it comes to finding actual hers and hers matching bracelets, Etsy is your best bet. So, we’ll start with a few of my favorite offerings from the craft site, then we’ll look at those aforementioned single pieces that you can double up on.
1. Tinaco Matching Bracelet for Couple
Looking for a lovers’ gift with a simple design that you can wear pretty much anywhere? Then you can’t go wrong with these twin matching bracelets.
With 9 different options– including engravings on one or both sides- it’s super easy to customize this affordable hers and hers bracelet set. While they may look like gold, they’re actually made from stainless steel. So, you don’t have to worry about them rusting or tarnishing.
- 💕Couple Bracelets: Coming with a pair of delicate heart-shaped charm that mutual attraction when getting closer. These matching bracelets are symbolizing the eternal love and friendship between Lovers or Friends.
- 💕Premium Material: Made of high-quality nylon string, brand new heart charm design and stainless steel, these heart bracelet never fade and wouldn’t fall out. It is comfortable and safe. Very convenient to wear.
- 💕SIZE: The heart bracelets for couples can be adjusted to 60-85mm(2.36”-3.35”). The rope thickness is about 2.5mm. Weight: 4.2g. Basically everyone can wear it. Please do not worry and feel free to buy it.
This is a brilliant piece with a card that borrows from the popular love song by John Legend. I love this set as a little gift to give each other before your big day because it’s inexpensive and simple, yet so full of meaning. It expresses the sentiment of full commitment and love without reservation.
Wear her initial and she’ll wear yours! It comes in a myriad of colors in just about every shade of the rainbow. It also comes with a make-a-wish that can add to the magical nature of this gift..
3. Matching Lesbian Bracelets
These lesbian bracelets project a deep symbolism, being engraved with matching heartbeat waves, signifying your two heats beating in unison. They come in over 20 different band colors, a ton of fonts, and three different bar styles, from which you can choose.
- LGBT COUPLES BRACELET: We designed this LGBT gay & lesbian couples bracelets for the extension and transmission of emotions between couples. Love is colorful & without boundary! The design can make lovers more closer, it’s an eternal promise between you and your lover. Love is Love. Show your Pride with wearing our rainbow beads bracelet.
- VALENTINE’S DAY GIFTS: 2 Pcs couple heart bracelets will be a wonderful & meaningful gifts for boyfriend, girlfriend, lovers, couples on Valentine’s Day, Birthday, Christmas, Engagement, Promise, Anniversary Day, etc.
- HEALING CRYSTALS BRACELET: Wearing white turquoise ornaments will make your life full of love, avoid all accidental misfortunes and bring good luck. Black agate is also called the stone of longevity. It corresponds to the sea wheel of 7 chakra, can improve the reproductive system, bring health. In addition, it can help people to calm their emotions.
4. “Where it All Began” Coordinate Bracelets
Want to seal the memory of that special place where it all began? Then these bracelets are what you’re looking for. This is actually one of my favorite hers and hers jewelry ideas!
The bracelets feature the coordinates of where the couple first met. Of course, you can change it to any other coordinates (where they tied the knot, got engaged, etc) and probably even add a date, then customize the card. Choose from 15 different cord colors and engraving on both sides or just one side.
- Personalized Bracelet
- Very durable
- The washer can be made from aluminum, copper, silver plated or gold plated.
5. Stamped Hers and Hers Bracelets
This set of handstamped engraved matching hers and hers bracelets features the couple’s wedding date (or any other date you choose). They’re super affordable and come in two bar choices as well as 25 different colors for the bands. Plus, you can choose from dozens of fonts and symbols for the engraving, and you can also replace the “hers” with the initials of each spouse.
- [Stay Connected to Your Loved One] No matter how far away from each other you are, you can keep in touch with them with the totwoo Bracelet. Simply tap your bracelet and your partner’s will vibrate and flash, knowing that you’re thinking about them, sensing the other one’s touch through the vibration. This is a great gift for couples, families, and close friends.
- [All Functions Built for Love] Secret messages: Through totwoo App, you can send secret messages and love letters to surprise your beloved. Once your partner touches their bracelet, the messages will be revealed on their phone. Anniversary Reminder: Your bracelet will automatically remind you of important dates. Never miss another birthday or anniversary again. Call Reminder: Add 3 important contacts in the app, and your bracelet will vibrate and flash to notify you when receiving a call.
- [Unique Design] Bracelets with classic sun and moon elements, romantic and fashionable. The backs of the bracelets are engraved with Jane Austen’s quote, “My heart is, and will always be yours.” A zirconium stone is delicately hand-set into the moon bracelet. Bracelet with stylish Figaro chain, adjustable size. Available in many colors and designs to match your different styles and outfits.
6. Pandora You Are Loved Bracelet
While this one doesn’t come in a matching set, there’s no reason why you can’t buy two! I love the idea of giving each other a matching charm bracelet as a pre-wedding gift to signify the love you share. Then, each year, add a new charm unique to your own personalities.
For example, if you love reading, your wife could give you a book charm. If she loves dogs, give her a paw. As the years go by, you’ll have a visual representation of how different you are yet how love is always the thing you have in common.
- Give your collection a fresh romantic look with the Moments Silver Bracelet with Heart Clasp from Pandora. This stunning charm bracelet is crafted from polished sterling silver in the classic snake chain design featuring an exclusive love heart shaped clasp, with perfect branded engraving. Celebrate those moments which create your love story with this romantically inspired collection from Pandora.
- Sterling Silver: The world’s most popular silver alloy, our sterling silver consists of 92.5% silver and 7.5% other metals (such as copper). This blend is excellent for jewelry because it preserves the color, luster and the weight of silver while vastly improving the durability of your bracelets.
- Memories Are Forever: Important milestones and moments are here to stay. Perfect gift for your wife, mother, daughter, granddaughter, niece, or any charm bracelet beginner. Mark your loved one’s big day (wedding, sweet 16, new baby, Mother’s Day, etc.) with the gift of expressing their individuality through their fashion and style.
7. Bond Touch Matching Bracelets
As far as symbolic gifts go, these bond touch bracelets are the sweetest. I saw these on Amazon and they are just so neat! While they’re made for couples who spend a lot of time apart (maybe one of you deploys overseas, for example), I think they’re perfect for any couple. Hey, you don’t spend every waking moment together, right? Well, maybe during these times… Still, at some point, one of you will leave the house. With these bracelets, when you touch yours, she feels it! How sweet is that?
- STAY CONNECTED: Bond Touch will keep you connected and always stay in touch with your loved ones while apart, by mimicking the natural vibration of their touch.
- A PRIVATE CHAT FOR TWO: The private space is encrypted and secure, so you can share intimate moments safely even when you are apart.
- CUSTOMIZABLE: Easily swap accessory bands for different and unique styles, choose a different color to switch up your style or match your outfit of the day.
Hers and Hers Necklaces
Necklaces are the perfect representation of love and any other sentiment one might wish to keep close to their heart because of where you wear them. That’s why they’re my favorite wedding gifts. The design and ornaments you add to a necklace impact its meaning, and especially as a wedding gift, there’s so much you can express with a necklace.
Finding hers and hers necklace sets was a little trickier, but I did manage to round up a few options that I love. For the rest, I shared single pieces that would make beautiful matching sets, you just need to buy two.
1. Personalized hand stamped Matching necklaces
These sweet bar-style necklaces say “her one” and “her only,” and can be stamped with your wedding date, or any other date you choose. They’re perfect both as gifts to give each other or to give two brides, as they’re incredibly reasonably priced.
- [Necklace Information] Engraved bar size: approx. 1.4” x 0.28 (36mm x 7mm), Chain length: 17.5″ (44.5mm) / Gold Plated, Silver Plated, Rose Gold Plated with Stainless steel. This is better quality than brass or alloy materials. It’s built to last as well with tarnish resistant materials!
- [Mignon and Mignon Custom Necklace] Personalize this nameplate with your choice of metal finish varying from gold, silver, to rose gold, and with the inscription of your initial, name, custom messages, or custom coordinates to keep your special moments close to your heart. Sweet, minimal, and timeless, this name necklace is our all-time favorite.
- [Perfect Gift for Family and Friends] Personalized jewelry that makes the perfect gift for family and friends and comes in a cute box for easy storage or gifting. This special and meaningful gift can be given to mother, father, sister, brother, best friends, girlfriend, boyfriend, coworker, or anyone else you cherish. You can give this Key Ring on various anniversaries and occasions, like for Mother’s Day, Father’s Day, Valentine’s Day, Birthday, Christmas, Graduation, Wedding Day, etc.
2. Matching Partner Necklaces
I’m so in love with this matching necklace set! Isn’t it just so pretty? I love the way they fit together, and that amethyst charm is lovely. Both necklaces are cut out of one piece of metal, so they truly do fit together perfectly.
- 💕【Size】Chain length of the necklace is about 18 inches. Promise rings for women is 7, promise rings for men is 8
- 💕【Romantic Phrase】Material is Stainless Steel. Rings engraved PARTNERS IN CRIME
- 💕【Gifts for Couples】Great necklaces with rings set to share between wife and husband, girlfriend and boyfriend. Give this matching necklaces to your favorite as Valentine’s Day present, anniversary gifts, christmas gifts
Bear with me, because I know the one above looks like a “Mother Birthstone Necklace,” and it is. However, I have this idea of how to turn it into beautiful hers and hers matching necklaces. For the first two stones, use each of your birthstones. Then, for a third one, use the stone for the month of your wedding.
If you really want to go all out, add in the month you met as the top stone. So, it would go “month we met, two stones representing each of us, month we became one.” I hope that makes sense! Of course, you could just get one with both of your birthstones and skip the others, too. That would be just as lovely!
- [Personalized Birthstone Necklace Specifications] Birthstone: approx. 0.35” x 0.27” (9mm×7mm), Chain Length: approx. 17.5” (44.5cm)
- [Custom Engraved Disc Necklace Material Information] Gold Plated, Silver Plated, Rose Gold Plated with Stainless steel. This is better quality than brass or alloy materials. It’s built to last as well with tarnish resistant materials!
- [Offered Birth Month Stone Options] ①Jan: Garnet ②Feb: Amethyst ③Mar: Aquamarine ④Apr: Diamond (Cubic Zirconia) ⑤May: Emerald ⑥Jun: Alexandrite ⑦Jul: Ruby ⑧Aug: Peridot ⑨Sep: Sapphire ⑩Oct: Tourmaline ⑪Nov: Topaz ⑫Dec: Blue Topaz / Leaf Charm Character Limit: 1 initial per charm
4. Personalized Sterling Silver Infinity Necklace
An infinity necklace makes the perfect hers and hers jewelry gift. After all, your love is never-ending, right? While it doesn’t come in a set, it’s affordable enough to buy two matching pieces. Comes in silver, gold and rose gold.
- Here’s the classic infinity name pendant necklace! Every stylish woman should have a Custom Nameplate Necklace in their jewelry box. Our Infinity Name Necklace provides the best way for you to show off what the word "forever" means to you. You can get up to two names or words on each loop of the infinity symbol. This is the perfect personalized infinity necklace to wear.
- Fashioned in sleek sterling silver, rose gold, or 18K gold plated - sculpted in a flowing script font. Spell out your name with sharp style! All of JOELLE JEWELRY Infinity Name necklaces have a polished surface so that they gleam beautifully in the light. You' ll adore the fanciful look of this personalized name necklace. Classic glossy design never goes out of style.
- If you are on the hunt for a thoughtful gift for a loved one, this would be a wonderful piece to present them with. Wear yours, you and your significant others', or your children's names to make a unique statement that you keep close to your heart. Simple and sweet, these make an amazing gift.
5. David Yurman Double Heart Pendant Necklace
This one is pricier, so it makes a better gift for two brides to give each other rather than presents to buy for a lesbian couple. The two hearts entwined together beautifully represent your two lives becoming one. It’s a great ring alternative, thanks to the diamonds. That way, you get the traditional gemstone, just on a piece of jewelry that better fits your style.
- Simple and elegant: This mixed metal plated necklace combines the precision and quality of sparkling Swarovski crystals with a timeless necklace design, for a touch of glamour for every occasion
- Minimalist and unique: The infinity double heart necklace features 2 dainty mixed metal intertwined hearts, paired with a touch of sparkling clear crystal pavé on a delicate chain
- Designed to last: Swarovski jewelry will maintain its brilliance over time when simple care practices are observed; remove before contact with water, lotions or perfumes to extend your jewelry’s life
6. Tree of Life Silver Matching Necklaces for Couples
If you’re looking for matching hers and hers necklaces that are a little more unique, this is a great pick! The Tree of Life represents different things to different cultures-eternal life, a link to the 9 worlds, wisdom, and so on. Each of you gets one half, and only together is the tree complete. While it is more towards the “give to each other” price range because it’s handmade, it also makes a wonderful group gift for a wealthy couple who already has everything.
- 【Design Ideas】The tree of life necklace symbol of positive energy, growth and strength, rebirth, a bright future, longevity, good health, and a fresh start on life. Ying And Yang tree of life Pendant Necklace,Represents eternal love. They are good matching puzzle couples relationship necklaces.
- Material:made of high-quality 925 sterling silver necklace,include sterling sliver pendant and chain,no lead，no nickel,classic and natural,it’s comfortable to long-term wearing.
- Size: 30.1mm（1.18inch）*15.1mm（0.59inch） 18+2-inch chain, packing: gift box
7. Diamond Infinity Necklace
This last one is another twist on the infinity symbol. It’s a little more upscale than the one above, making it a perfect gift to give each other on your wedding day. However, it’s affordable enough to also work as a gift to give the happy couple! It’s made from sterling silver and features 19 round single cut diamond accents.
- STYLE: This beautiful 1/4 cttw 10K white gold necklace features a diamond-accented twisted infinity pendant 10.88mm in width and 26.15mm in length with cluster of Diamonds suspended at center
- MATERIAL: Round White Diamond,IJ,I2-I3,0.25 Carats. Carat weight is the total carat weight for all stones.
- DETAILS: 18″ rolo chain with spring ring clasp
Of course, necklaces and bangles are not the only kinds of jewelry you can get for the couple. If you want a different type of jewelry, here are some ideas you can consider.
Custom Engraved Nose Rings
If the couple happens to like nose rings, then this will be a great gift to offer them. The rings can have their names or initials engraved on them, or maybe a short love quote on each.
Two pairs of identical earrings will make a perfect gift for a lesbian couple, especially when customized. The earring can be a symbol of womanhood, and with romantic engravings to capture the love between a couple, it is a very meaningful wedding gift for lesbian lovers.
A tiara symbolizes female royalty and is a great gift to give a lesbian couple. How best to make them feel like royalty on their special day than to get them a tiara? However, you’ll have to gift it before the big day, and it won’t have much use except then and on other special occasions and outings. As such, if you are getting a tiara, it’s best to get something else as well—-something the couple can use more frequently, like any of the other jewelry pieces we’ve considered in this post.
Honestly, literally any bracelet or necklace can become “hers and hers jewelry.” Don’t feel like you have to stick with specific matching sets. If you see something that you both like- be it a diamond necklace, a matching bracelet set, or even just some pretty beads on a string- go for it!
What are some of your favorite hers and hers jewelry ideas? Share below!
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