Looking for some transgender wedding ideas to help inspire your own big day?
Whether it’s finding the perfect dress, choosing the right rings, or deciding on what to say at your ceremony, we’ve got you.
Read on for some of the most beautiful and inspirational ideas that will get your creative juices flowing!
Transgender Wedding Ideas
Before we dive into our favorite transgender wedding ideas, can we just take a moment to ooh and ahh over this gorgeous couple?
Beautiful, right? How much are you loving their transgender wedding dress ideas? I can’t decide which one I like more, the elegantly simple dress or that stunning lacy number.
Okay, enough oohing and ahhing. We’re here to talk about YOUR big day, right? Let’s get started.
Here are some of the most important things you should consider for your transgender wedding.
1. Have the ceremony you want
When you plan your wedding you should think about how you want it to happen.
Want a simple backyard affair? A luxurious gala-like event? A religious ceremony?
Whatever you want, go for it. Don’t let anyone stand in your way.
Yes, the world is full of small-minded people, but never let that stop you.
In fact, it’s even possible to find churches who embrace ALL couples, so don’t feel like you have to give up your dream of a religious wedding.
2. Get the best genderqueer wedding attire
Sit down with your betrothed and discuss your dream attire.
Do you want to coordinate wedding dresses? Would one (or both) of you feel more comfortable in soft butch attire?
There are many locations where you can buy the most astonishing transgender wedding dress or suit, giving you the possibility to feel like a Disney royalty.
Just think about Cinderella in her elegant, sleeveless white dress and crystal shoes, dancing with her price until midnight, or Belle in her memorable, yellow dress saving the whole castle.
3. Create the perfect cake
Finding the best cake for your wedding may be a tough job, especially with bigoted vendors and bakers refusing to serve same-sex couples.
However, just as more churches are embracing all couples, the vast majority of bakers follow the law and don’t discriminate against LGBTQ+ couples.
So really, the hardest part of choosing a cake is deciding on the flavor and style!
You need to make a choice depending on the number of guests, their preferences and allergies, and your own wishes.
It can be as big as you want it to be and decorated with the most extravagant toppers.
At any wedding, it’s important that everyone has a great time and when the time comes, eat a delicious slice of the perfect cake.
4. Buy the rings
When it comes to choosing perfect transgender wedding rings, your options are limited only by your budget and tastes.
See every option, decide if you want silver or gold, if you want your rings decorated with precious or semi-precious gems and if they match your personalities and desires.
You can even opt for a silicone wedding band!
They’re super affordable and actually quite classy. Plus, they’re perfect for couples who work with their hands- like doctors, machinists, and such.
5. Make your own rules
This is the most important thing you can do with your trans wedding.
Follow the traditions you want to follow and leave the rest in the dust.
Some couples choose to have a ringbearer, others will keep the rings on themselves.
Same applies to bridesmaids, groomsmen and flower girl.
There are no set rules for how a wedding should happen and you are completely in charge of your own.
Don’t want to walk down the aisle? No problem.
Organize a circle wedding and have your guests sit all around you.
You want to have seven bridesmaids and seven groomsmen? Go for it!
Your wedding is all about YOU and you alone.
Well, you and your future spouse. Can’t forget them. They’d kind of be ticked if you did!
You get the point, though. Make your day about the two of you and the magic will fall into place.
You always have a choice!
If you don’t want to go through the whole planning process, a wedding planner can help you.
In an article, Joanne Herman explained how her transgender wedding was planned by an amazing person who treated them both with the utmost friendship.
Of course, Joanne was worried because, in a short time, she had to learn everything about being a bride and she wasn’t sure if the wedding service providers would be comfortable with her situation.
But then, she met Bernadette Smith, who knew everything about transgender weddings. She helped her through the process and even found the best dress for her, in no time.
Joanne and her wife, Terry, were fortunate enough to have their wedding planned by a person who understood them.
Who never judged for a minute and was willing to do everything so they could get the wedding they deserved.
Go ahead and choose the best transgender wedding dresses and be the most beautiful transgender brides in the world.
Find your perfect rings and organize the best ceremony.
Create beautiful memories, take a lot of pictures and reminisce about them years later. Everything is possible for your transgender wedding.