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Searching for the best lesbian and gay wedding things to buy on Amazon is a lot trickier than it should be. I’ve spent many a frustrating days putting in terms like “his and his towels” or “Mrs. & Mrs. gift ideas” only to get back “his and hers” or “Mr. & Mrs.” ideas.

If you’ve about had it up to “here” with trying to find legit same-sex wedding things on Amazon, keep reading. I did the legwork for you to help save you some frustration.

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Big Dot of Happiness Mr. and Mr. - Gold - Gay Wedding LGBTQ Photo Booth Props Kit - 20 Count
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Equally Wed: The Ultimate Guide to Planning Your LGBTQ+ Wedding
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Must-have guide for LGBTQ couples
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Bright Colorful Paper Flowers 3 Inch Rainbow Roses LGBT Wedding Table Centerpiece Decorations Set of 10
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Beautiful for table centerpieces
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Gay or Lesbian Rainbow Wedding Stickers for the Bottom of Chocolate Kisses (Set of 108) (RRnbowHt)
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Best Lesbian and Gay Wedding Things to Buy on Amazon

Since you’re searching for same-sex wedding “things” versus “gifts,” I’m going to assume that you’re shopping for your own wedding. So, with that in mind, I rounded up the best décor, planners, invites, and so on for your big day.

That said, if you ARE looking for gifts to buy an LGBTQ couple, keep reading to the end. I’ve included some ideas that any couple would love.

1. Big Dot of Happiness Mr. and Mr. Photo Booth Props

Big Dot of Happiness Mr. and Mr. Photo Booth Props

If you’re planning to have a photo booth at your wedding, then grab a set of these amazing LGBTQ “Love Wins” props! This set comes with everything you need for a gay wedding. Big Dot of Happiness also has sets for lesbian weddings in their Amazon shop.

Big Dot of Happiness Mr. and Mr. - Gold - Gay Wedding LGBTQ Photo Booth Props Kit - 20 Count
  • 20-Piece LGBTQ Photo Booth Props Kit INCLUDES 20 Mr. & Mr. - Gold photo booth props, 20 wooden dowel sticks and adhesives for assembly. EASY ASSEMBLY: Simply attach the printed DIY photo booth props to the wooden dowels with included adhesive and reinforcing stickers.
  • PERFECT FOR ANY CROWD! Photo booth props are fun wedding party supplies for adults and kids - everyone will love the funny faces on these Mr. & Mr. - Gold photo booth props. Take entertaining and shareable party photos of your friends and family while making memories with these stylish photo booth props!
  • WEDDING DECORATION IDEAS: There are many fun ways to use these cute photo booth props! Use as intended at your wedding and take party photos to share; add them to vases and floral arrangements as a fun black and gold centerpiece; or accent your gay wedding theme by displaying them in decorative candy jars!
  • HIGH-QUALITY PARTY SUPPLIES: Mr. & Mr. - Gold photo booth props are professionally printed on thick cardstock paper. They will arrive cut out and ready to assemble with the included wooden dowel sticks and adhesives. Mr. & Mr. - Gold photo booth props use a No-Mess Glitter Print: Our photo booth props are designed with a printed image of glitter, eliminating glitter flake while maximizing bling effect!
  • MADE IN THE USA: Mr. & Mr. - Gold - Gay Wedding LGBTQ Photo Booth Props Kit is designed and manufactured at our Wisconsin facility using materials that are Made in the USA.

2. LGBTQ Wedding Invitations

3dRose Two Brides In Wedding Gowns, Black Damask Greeting Cards

Amazon has very few LGBTQ-themed wedding invitations, but they do have a small selection of “blank inside” cards that work well.

For a lesbian wedding, I really like this Black Damask card from 3dRose. If you’re looking for gay wedding invitations, try this one (also by 3dRose).

3dRose Two Brides In Wedding Gowns, Black Damask Greeting Cards, 6" x 6", Set of 12 (gc_164713_2)
  • Dimensions (in inches): card 5.5 H x 5.5 W, envelope 6 H x 6 W
  • Heavy duty card stock with blank interior
  • Additional postage may be required
  • Cards are creased for Easy folding
  • Set of 12 greeting cards; 12 white envelopes included.

3. Equally Wed: The Ultimate Guide to Planning Your LGBTQ+ Wedding

Equally Wed: The Ultimate Guide to Planning Your LGBTQ+ Wedding

The Equally Wed guide is a must-have for all same-sex couples in the early planning stage of their wedding. It’s one of the few planners dedicated entirely to LGBTQ couples, and even includes tips for dealing with unsupportive homophobic relatives.

Equally Wed: The Ultimate Guide to Planning Your LGBTQ+ Wedding
  • Palladino, Kirsten (Author)
  • English (Publication Language)
  • 272 Pages - 05/30/2017 (Publication Date) - Seal Press (Publisher)

4. Lesbian Cake Topper for Dog Lovers

Lesbian Cake Topper for Dog Lovers

What it lacks for in pretty much all other LGBTQ wedding décor aspects, Amazon makes up for in same-sex cake toppers. You can actually find quite a few in a good range of styles.

If you’re a lesbian couple planning to include your pet in your wedding, I absolutely adore this one! You can customize it with your dog’s breeds. For a gay wedding for dog-lovers, I like this one.

Lesbian Cake topper

Not really your thing? No problem! Here are more “LGBT wedding cake topper” results from Amazon handmade that you may love. (Pro tip-Handmade usually has better search results for same-sex couples).

5. Bright Colorful Paper Flowers Table Decorations

Bright Colorful Paper Flowers Table Decorations

These gorgeous paper flowers are a fun yet elegant way to bring the Pride flag colors into your reception. Group them together as a centerpiece or scatter them around the room. You can even buy a bunch to decorate your arch! They’re handmade from heavy cardstock, so they’ll last long after your big day.

6. Gay or Lesbian Rainbow Wedding Stickers for Hershey Kisses

Gay or Lesbian Rainbow Wedding Stickers for Hershey Kisses

Hershey Kisses make great wedding favors, especially when you upgrade them with these LGBTQ stickers. You can personalize all three styles to include any message you want (as long as it fits, of course).

Gay or Lesbian Rainbow Wedding Stickers for the Bottom of Chocolate Kisses (Set of 108) (RRnbowHt)
  • FREE Digital Proof
  • Made to Order
  • Low Minimum
  • Fully Customizable
  • Quick Turnaround Time

7. Sugar Skull Lesbian Wedding Toasting Glasses

Sugar Skull Lesbian Wedding Toasting Glasses

Okay, so you have to have a very specific style or taste to appreciate these, but I think they’re too neat to leave off the list. Besides, you can find regular personalized flutes on your own with a 3-second search. I’m trying to find ideas that you are buried a bit deeper.

They also make a set for gay couples. Choose from pilsner or wine glasses in pretty much any combination.

8. Rainbow Love Wins Sign for Flower & Ring Carriers

I know that rainbow “Love Wins” signs are a dime a dozen, but I think this one by Ritzy Rose stands out from the crowd. The font is fun, the colors are beautifully muted, and the paper is made from sustainable trees. I love the idea of having your flower/ring kids carry it down the aisle together.

9. Rainbow Tea Light Candles

Rainbow Tea Light Candles

If you want to include a small touch of the rainbow Pride symbolism into your wedding without going over-the-top colorful, these tea lights are a great way to go. Group them together for a full rainbow effect or sprinkle them throughout the room for a subtler touch.

Multi Color Changing Votive Flameless Candles with Remote and Timer - Battery Operated Led Tea Light Candles,Set of 10 Colored Flickering Candles for Birthday, Wedding, Anniversary Easter Party Décor.
  • 【RGB COLOR CHANGING】These color led tea lights change through 12 colors automatically in “Multi color” mode, You also can choose your favorite color by Remote Control.
  • 【SAFE TO USE】No flames, No smoke, No melted wax,These color led tea lights are Safe for kids, pets and seniors.
  • 【MULTI-PURPOSE DECORATION】1.5" D x 2" Prefect Size for All Candle holders; The colored Pillar candles are ideal for accent decorations for holiday celebrations, wedding, party.
  • 【LONG BATTERY LIFE】 Come with CR2450 replaceable button cell, Each colored votive candle can continuous shine 100+ Hours;and battery can be replaced easily via the tab at the bottom. LONGER battery life LESS spends on batteries.
  • 【REMOTE +TIMER】The multi color tea lights build in 4- or 8-hour automatic timer. Set your colored flameless candles once and have color led tea lights turn on and off automatically every day at the same time.

Lesbian and Gay Wedding Gifts on Amazon

You’ll notice that very few of the gifts below actually have an LGBTQ theme. It’s kind of weird- not to mention offensive- to assume that all gay or lesbian couples want nothing but rainbows on their wedding gifts.

I also recommend perusing our gift ideas section. We have everything from sentimental wedding gifts to affordable presents under $50.

1. Roomba iRobot

Roomba iRobot

A Roomba is hands-down, the best wedding gift you can find on Amazon. It’s suitable for any newly engaged couple, as it will completely take some of the chores away from them, giving them time to spend with each other. 

iRobot Roomba 690 Robot Vacuum-Wi-Fi Connectivity, Works with Alexa, Good for Pet Hair, Carpets, Hard Floors, Self-Charging
  • Sleek, premium design complements your home décor; Includes 1 dual mode virtual wall barrier for more control over where your robot cleans
  • 3 stage cleaning system and dual multi surface brushes pick up everything from small particles to large debris
  • Patented dirt detect sensors alert roomba to work harder on concentrated areas of dirt, such as high traffic zones of your home
  • Full suite of intelligent sensors guide the robot under and around furniture to help thoroughly clean your floors
  • Clean and schedule from anywhere with the iRobot home app; Compatible with amazon Alexa and the google assistant. Mobile device compatible software version: iphone: ios 11 or higher, android: OS 5.0 or higher

2. Premium Cheeseboard Set

Premium Cheeseboard Set

Any couple needs to have a cheeseboard set. It’s great to host incredible parties, and also romantic nights in the candlelight. This one comes with a complete set of cheese cutlery, so the gift is complete.

Bambüsi Premium Bamboo Cheese Board Set - Wooden Charcuterie Board Serving Platter and Knife Set with Hidden Slid-Out Drawer - Ideal Gift for Wedding, Housewarming, Bridal Shower, Birthday
  • PREMIUM BAMBOO WOOD CONSTRUCTION - Bambüsi Cheese Board is intricately handcrafted from All-Natural, Organic, and Sustainable Moso Bamboo, which makes it 100% food-safe – formaldehyde-free, BPA-free, with no toxins or chemicals added.
  • COMPLETE CHARCUTERIE BOARD SET - To complete your luxurious entertaining experience, we pack this Wooden Cheese Tray with 4 Cheese Knives and Utensils, 3 Slate Labels, 2 White Markers, a Wine Opener, and a Carrying Bag.
  • SPACIOUS TRAY FOR PARTY SNACKS - This Cheese Tray' slide-out hidden drawer optimizes your dining space as it holds the included knives and utensils. It also has grooved edges to accommodate additional snacks such as crackers or meats.
  • SUPERIOR DESIGN AND QUALITY - With its nonporous surface, this Cheese Cutting Board will not stain or absorb odors so you can always serve with confidence that your food is not contaminated. Plus, it resists knife scarring.
  • A GREAT GIFT IDEA FOR EVERYONE - This Cheese Board is extremely versatile that you can use it as a Charcuterie Board, a Serving Tray, or a Cutting Board. Thus, it gives you a practical housewarming gift idea for your friends or loved ones.

3. Wedding Time Capsule

Wedding Time Capsule

In this wedding time capsule, the couple can place things they used at the wedding, and set to open it in 10, 20, or even 30 years. It’s a wonderful wedding gift, and the couple will definitely appreciate it!

Wedding Time Capsule Personalized Keepsake Set - Bridal Shower Decorations - Wedding Gifts for Couple or Bride - Memory Storage Container Tin
  • PRESERVE Keepsakes - Save your most important mementos and memorabilia from your first year of marriage. Then, on a date of your choosing, decades in the future, open the time capsule again and reminisce about what life was like the first year you were married.
  • EASY ORGANIZING - Save time and simply put your favorite keepsakes and souvenirs from your first year of marriage in the time capsule. Everything 3D that will not fit in a scrapbook. Be a part of history. Measures 6.5"W x 12" H.
  • PROFILE BOOK - Save information in the Profile Book of the current world. Document what your daily lives are like. First car, first home, etc. Make a photo album with the "Our Wedding" sticker.
  • ADVICE LETTERS - 6 sets of Message to the Future letters (with sample questions) and envelopes, for family and friends to fill out predictions of the couple's future, like what they will be doing in the future or how many kids they will have.
  • ALL in 1 BRIDAL SHOWER Gift - How-to Guide & Inventory Checklist of great ideas for what to put in time capsule & 160 full color stickers for photo albums or scrapbook.

4. His and His Love Pillowcases (for a Gay Wedding)

His and His Love Pillowcases

These pillowcases may just become the couple’s favorite house accessory, as they will remind them of how amazing they are together. Of course, these are available on Amazon, and are suitable for any queen-sized bed.

5. LGBTQ Couple’s Marriage Map

LGBTQ Couple’s Marriage Map

This map is supposed to mark the place the couple got married, engaged, or even the place they met. You can customize it directly on Amazon, and have it delivered in its final form, and ready to be given as a gift!

6. Whiskey Decanter Set

Whiskey Decanter Set

Even if the couple is not a big fan of Whiskey, this decanter set will make an awesome gift. It’s something they can keep as a decor, and even have a glass from time to time when it’s time to celebrate.

Whiskey Decanter Globe Set with 2 Etched Globe Whisky Glasses - for Liquor, Scotch, Bourbon, Vodka - 850ml
  • Hand blown elegant whiskey decanter dispenser featuring an etched globe design and antique ship in the bottle will undoubtedly enhance your drinking experience while making a bold impression.
  • Patented set includes whisky decanter with 2 matching globe design old fashioned whiskey glasses fitted onto mahogany stained tray. Gold stopper adds a touch of class while keeping your spirits sealed.
  • Lead free decanter capacity: 850ml - Cocktail glass: 300ml
  • Great gift and conversation piece at any party. Can also be used to serve water, juice, iced tea and other beverages.
  • Since 1973 Godinger has specialized in handcrafted silver, pewter, crystal, stainless, and alternative metal giftware. From wedding gifts, candlesticks, barware, bakeware, tea sets and frames, you are sure to find the perfect item for any special occasion. Godinger products are available at all major retailers across the US and Canada.

7. Copper Champagne Flutes

Copper Champagne Flutes

Of course, not every couple will settle for the classic glass champagne flutes, and that’s ok. You can find these copper ones on Amazon and definitely surprise them. They are beautiful, super-stylish, and won’t break if something unexpected happens around them!

Copper champagne flutes of 6.7 oz set of 2 – Luxurious hammered copper champagne glasses – Each one is handcrafted and lacquered to prevent from tarnishing.
  • -What would make you a host in style? – Moscow mule copper mugs are very popular now so you can hardly impress your friends with them. Copper champagne flutes are elegant, shiny and gorgeous. Make your neighbors envy you!
  • -Highest quality hammered copper cup of 22 gauge on brass copper plated stem and base to match the flute. The brass stem will not transmit the heat from your hand when holding the glass. Our champagne glasses are covered with food grade lacquer to prevent tarnishing and to keep the shine. Feels heavy and looks expensive. Each Mosscoff copper flute comes in two pieces and needs one-time assembling but this is the best way to deliver them undamaged.
  • -A gift for women that no one can resist. Perfect for wedding champagne flutes – make an accent on the couple and decorates the table.
  • -The exquisite idea for a 7th wedding anniversary gift. Copper wedding anniversary will be an unforgettable event with our copper glasses. I can become a long-lasting keepsake that would remind you of the time spent together.
  • The flutes come in two parts and require one time assembling.

8. Hand Casting Kit

Hand Casting Kit

This hand casting kit will definitely create a moment for the couple. They need to prepare it themselves, and then create a wonderful sculpture of their hands. This way, they’ll create a present that’s gonna last forever.

Pendle & Birdie Hand Casting Kit - A Complete Premium Craft Gift to Create a Two-Hand Couples Sculpture Keepsake. Large Kit incl. an Elegant Stand, Plaster & Colour Changing Alginate
  • A unique gift for someone special - includes plaster & alginate powders, gloves, detailing sticks, sandpaper and a stand in a beautiful giftable box
  • Create it together, keep it forever - Making a cast of your hands is a fun, creative & unforgettable experience to share
  • You don't have to be an artist - With our easy to follow, step-by-step instructions, everyone can produce something truly beautiful
  • High quality skin safe materials - Carefully selected to capture every exquisite detail of your hands
  • Stylish black stand included - The essential finishing touch to turn your casting into an elegant work of art that will complement any interior

9. Amazon Gift Card

Amazon Gift Card

When all else fails, make sure to consider a gift card. You can choose an Amazon gift card of any value, and have it delivered in this awesome wedding box. The couple will definitely be grateful, as they’ll choose what they like best! Gift Card in a Premium Gift Box (Rose Gold)
  • Gift Card is nested inside a premium gift box with gold accents
  • Gift amount may not be printed on Gift Cards
  • Gift Card has no fees and no expiration date
  • No returns and no refunds on Gift Cards
  • Gift Card is redeemable towards millions of items storewide at
From planners to décor to gifts, we rounded up all the best lesbian and gay wedding things to buy on Amazon. Take a peek!

Which one of these best lesbian and gay wedding things to buy on Amazon is your favorite?

Andreea Juganaru
Andreea Juganaru

Andreea is a very passionate content creator and her purpose is to provide you with the most interesting articles, while constantly discovering new facts. She’s been freelance writing for the past five years and has created numerous articles and educational materials while managing her own blog.

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Last update on 2021-07-25 / Affiliate links / Images from Amazon Product Advertising API